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Did you tell people prior to surgery or after or not at all?

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only my hubby, my mum and my kids. I waited until the weekend befor to tell the kids so they would not try to talk me out of it. I had gotten halfway by then so they knew I was determined.

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I was very selective of who I told mostly because I felt it was a deeply personal journey I needed to take and the other reason, I didn't want anyone's bullshit negative and ignorant crap thrown at me and people trying to "talk me out of it".

 

Since the surgery, I have told a few more people.  I'm very proud of my decision to make my life better and having the balls to actually do it - I find I still keep it to a select few and avoid the judgemental few.  Usually the judgement is founded on ignorance.

 

So far that's the way i've been - that's not to say i'll gain more and more confidence at the kgs come off and I won't care so much about the judgement :-)

 

Each to their own - I still believe it is a deeply personal thing, so I say, do what you feel is right for you :-)

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